Not really that new though, since it really feels like I’ve been sitting on this one for a hot minute. Or nearly two months.
Our Tuscany trip was memorable in a lot of ways. We ate well, we drank well, we saw beautiful sights and soaked up lots and lots of much-needed vitamin D over the ten days.
But there was something else as well. On New Year’s Eve afternoon, we went for a rambling hike around and over the hill behind Santa Lucia. Towards the end of the hike, we found a nice place to sit and relax for a bit on a sandy hill with a nice view. After awhile the wind got a bit chilly, but before BV would let us head back down the hill home, he had another thing on the agenda. A small change of scenery…
Yep… after seven years together, it’s time we make this thing official. What that will look like though, I have no idea. And when and where is still very much to be determined. We were thinking sometime this fall, but we’re learning that as two very poor planners, we don’t have much time to act if we really want to make that happen. Next year would not be the end of the world, but we also don’t really want to wait that long! It took two months just to see most of the friends and family here to tell them the news,* so now we’re ready to get this show on the road.
So to add a bit of explanation for anyone who may have been confused about why in the world we embarked on that ridiculous train trip last weekend, it’s because we wanted to check out some venues. The cats and Kaiserschmarren were just a most excellent bonus. More on that later.
Though looking back on photos for this post, maybe we should just scrap all the ideas we’ve had thus far and go back to Tuscany to get married. Decisions, decisions… and planning… not either of our strong suits.
The good news is that neither of us have any interest in a big, fluffy wedding with all of the trimmings; nor do I have any interest in chronicling the entire planning process here. There are plenty of mediocre wedding planning blogs out there for that.
The bad news is that all it takes is some basic wedding-related googling to turn your suggested pages into a scary, scary place. My Pinterest home page, previously full of recipes, has now got lots of wedding to-do lists, suggestions for bridesmaid gifts, and assorted ‘shedding for the wedding’ type content. *insert vomit emoji here* If that stuff takes over my brain, it’s possible in six months I’ll be waxing poetic about cupcake dresses and shopping for tiaras.
But for both our sakes, I’ll try to keep it sane. If BV develops a strong opinion on bow ties though, I’m in trouble.
*hence this post coming two months after the fact!